Interpersonal Communication between Divorced Parents and Children in Nigeria

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https://doi.org/10.48314/nex.v2i1.26

Abstract

This study examined the interpersonal communication between divorced parents and children. A descriptive and qualitative method was used, and data were elicited through documentation, observations, and interviews with divorced families in Kano, Nigeria. Kano State was selected for this study because Aljazeera revealed it as the state with the most divorce records in Nigeria in 2019, with 683 cases. Data analysis was achieved based on in-depth interviews with the sources and transcription of the interview results. The study found no significant changes brought about by divorce, such that parents still fulfilled their roles of providing love, education, and security for their children. Furthermore, interpersonal relationships within the family were revealed, so there were regular opportunities to communicate freely. Finally, the study contributed to knowledge by showing that interpersonal communication is maintained between divorced parents and their children.

Keywords:

Children, Communication, Divorce, Interpersonal communication, Parents

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Published

2025-02-28

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Vol. 2 No. 1 (2025): Psychology Nexus

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Articles

How to Cite

Interpersonal Communication between Divorced Parents and Children in Nigeria. (2025). Psychology Nexus, 2(1), 10-14. https://doi.org/10.48314/nex.v2i1.26